It’s an interesting question. After digging around on here, I started to panic about this and started researching paid redelivery services..but got all confused and gave up. I’m lucky on two fronts- I work at home 3 days per week so with a little planning I am always the only one home to collect. We also get a lot of mail for ex tenants who haven’t changed their address which is helpful.
However, when I get no tracking number (like last time with a domestic delivery) it’s slightly more worrying. I did use a different name due to stuff I read on here about plausible deniabilty. Like an idiot I used my dogs name and a family friend surname- which would probably be noticed if someone else in family took delivery. Talk about dumb.
I think though, like others have said, people send packages by the million every day, and especially in the case of in-country deliveries, you’d be very unlucky to have a problem. I think I may continue to use (maybe an ex tenants) name, but continue to deliver to my home.